Let's clear this up front: whether you're a woman or if you're a man, there is no doubt that being physically attractive is very important when the lift head start, and you should not trust anyone else to tell you: either you He is lying deliberately, or have lived locked inside a cave lifetime. I would not know which is worse. Being cute is a bonus. Of course. Undeserved or not, it is. That said, it is true that men give more importance to physical beauty than women, but that does not mean they completely obviated. Of course the value. In fact, every day. Or is it perhaps not you noticed how the girls spontaneously pay much more attention, for example, that tall guy, dark and striking green eyes, which initially would be granted to any other aspect merely conventional ?
Surely you noticed. You'd have to be blind not to have noticed. So for me, being as I am a type of sparsely remarkable physical appearance, that feeling of leaving the race always behind those who are more attractive than me, think of a day in; another, too. From Monday to Sunday. I'm not dumb. I am well aware that some of my friends have to do very little for hot women to take an interest in them spontaneously. His strong and muscular build, his disarming smile, his height, or whatever it is you stand on them, they greatly simplifies the process.
I usually say that, in the drawing of the genetic lottery, they hit a winner tenth. Not me. I know and I assume. Adversity a blessing in disguise. However. You think I let that get in my way? You think you know I'm the type of lot physically made me head down and display an attitude of victim? Do not even dream about it! It is rather the opposite. I firmly believe that the fact that I know conventional in this particular facet is the best thing that happened to me in life: a blessing cleverly disguised as a setback. Absolutely I think so!
In my head, in addition, there are few doubts. I think if he had been physically more attractive than I am, I would have never gone this far. I would never ever come to become the person I am now. Paradoxically, I believe equally strongly that, with a body and a face more palatable or suggestive for women, never ever have been so successful with them as I did as I am. It looks like a completely meaningless statement. And yet, it is not. Let me explain. If it had been an Adonis, if I had everything going for me from the beginning, I would never have developed my character to the point that I have, and never in my life I had learned everything I now know about women. I know it would be nice not seized more than a small part of my potential. I would have sacrificed much less and would not have gone as far as I arrived. It has been my full conviction that it was only one type of lot (and I will prove to myself and everyone else who might still be a seducer of women Extraordinary) which has encouraged me to pursue my success with stubbornness and a level of dedication, almost sickly, against which few can compete.
When I first arrived and bitter failures with women, I did what I always do when I crashed into a wall that I want to transfer: collect all the information I could about the subject, I dissect it to understand its intricacies and invisible mechanisms and fight vehemently, with all the force of which I am capable. I read and learned everything I could about women, then I went out to implement the real world. Was it hard ?, was difficult? Sure, bet on it. At first, I had many more failures than successes, I made all the mistakes that can be committed humanely with women, and received more negative in a couple of years for which most men receive in their lifetime. However, little by little, gradually, everything started falling into place. We grasp the pulse of the matter and the things charged full sense to me. It was growing on me with the best women I had ever done. He was able to spark interest and attraction in most of the I intended to, with, in addition, an efficiency that until then believed quite simply impossible. He had power over women, more than I had ever felt before. And I do not think I need to tell you that's a wonderful feeling. When one has fought both when fought with such fury and obstinacy to get something he wanted dearly, suddenly seen crossing the finish line is an indescribable feeling, which makes it you moisten the eyes of joy.
Why am I telling you all this. And what does this have to do with you? All. If you are attractive, if you are someone who melts women with just a look, then, congratulations, you have advantage. Use it. But if you're not particularly attractive, do not let that amilane you. Fight. Fight. Develop your character and go even to things that even thought possible.